To grow black hair long you have to modify your daily habits. The process of growing afro hair is 90% about your method and 10% about the shampoos and conditioners you buy. As black ladies, we spend hundreds buying up pricey beauty products simply because some stranger on the Internet said it was the secret to grow black hair long. But here's the truth: the products you choose matter only a little. It's the way you treat your hair that matters the most if you want to grow black hair long. This article is the REAL DEAL. No need to buy books or scour the various websites for different methods. Just try this step by step process for growing black hair past the shoulders to the tee for at least two months. Then come back to this blog and let me know your results.

1. Get the right products to grow black hair long :

- Moisturizing shampoo and conditioner (like Pantene Relaxed and Natural)
- A good deep conditioner (like Mizani)
- Wide tooth comb & fine tooth comb
- Ceramic flat iron
- Chi Silk Infusion
- Chi IronGuard thermal hair protector spray
- Keracare conditioning hair crème
- Keracare hair sheen spray

Listen, as I said earlier the products matter only a little. You can use what you want as long as it's a comparable quality product to what I've suggested above. As you can see I have a personal preference for Chi and Keracare products but you can use any you'd like to grow black hair long.

2. Do you know why some black women's hair breaks off around the shoulders? What about why some black ladies can't seem to grow black hair long despite substantial new growth between relaxers. It's because strands of black hair are more delicate (especially when relaxed) It's also because we let our hair rub up against the harsh fabrics we wear. The reasons why it's sometimes hard to grow black hair long are pretty simple and logical. Read more about how the clothes we wear affects our hair here.

3. Wash black hair every 4 to 5 days to grow black hair long. There are no exceptions to this rule, you must wash your hair. Lather your hair while standing in the shower and make sure you do it the right way: 1) push all of your hair down straight to the back when you're washing 2) run your fingertips through your hair to remove all the buildup on your scalp 3) rinse and repeat the shampoo once or twice but don't overdo it 4) don't rub black hair all over your head like you see in the movies. The way you wash your hair is key to learning how to grow black hair long.
Keracare Conditioning Creme

4. Proper Hair Conditioning is necessary to grow black hair long. Put your conditioner in going backwards. Then use a wide tooth comb to slowly detangle your hair. Take your time with your hair--use your fingertips to untangle the strands. Do not under any circumstance "rip" any comb or brush through your hair! Careful combing and detangling is extremely important if you want to grow black hair long.  After you're finished, go back over your hair with a thin toothed comb this time. Again, do this slowly, carefully and gently from the root on down until your hair is completely detangled. Leave the conditioner on for at least 5 minutes before rinsing it out.

5. Deep conditioning is necessary to grow black hair long. Deep condition every 3 weeks when you wash. Same process as described in the previous step for conditioning except use the deep conditioning product of your choice, put on a heat cap, wrap everything up with a towel, then leave it on for a half hour before rinsing and moving onto the next step.

6. Use a paper towel to squeeze the excess moisture from your hair after washing. Avoid using a standard bath towel if your goal is to grow black hair long! Cotton bath towels are harsh on your hair.

7. Put some leave in conditioner in your hair after washing. Apply leave in conditioner--don't go overboard because you don't want to weigh down your hair--you want it light and fluffy. After that, add about a dime's worth of Chi Silk Infusion to your wet hair. The Silk Infusion helps keep your hair smooth, supple and shiny between washes and also helps you reach your main goal: to grow black hair long.

8. Roller set your hair. You can either let it air dry this way or sit under a bonnet dryer. Once your hair is completely dry, spray it with a thermal protector like Chi Ironguard (look to the left, to the left). The Iron Guard shields your hair from the intense heat of the blow dryer, curling iron, or flat iron. You need a thermal protector to help keep your strands in tact so that you can grow black hair long.

9. Flat iron your hair (optional). After blow drying out your roots, the ceramic flat iron will help straighten your hair to a silky shine. You may be pleasantly surprised at the results when you follow these steps to the tee. You can also add a light setting lotion when wet, braid your hair, and let your black hair dry curly as an alternative to the straight look. There's a Dominican hair product called Konzil (leave in lotion) that I've heard might help you get a better curly look. Remember: the less heat the better when you want to grow black hair long.

10. Spritz your hair with Keracare Oil Sheen spray (or a similar oil sheen spray for black hair) once in a while to keep it shiny and healthy. Keracare's version has a "humidity block" formula that's helpful when you're out in the hot sun.

11. Put Keracare conditioning crème hairdress on your hair ends and through your scalp every night. Not too much--just a dab on your finger. Afterwards, wrap your hair with a satin scarf before you go to sleep—wearing a satin scarf is required if you want to grow black hair long.

12. Wear protective styles (such as buns and butterfly hair clips) when your hair is in between washes. Don't allow black hair to brush on your shoulders for long periods of time. Let your hair down when you're going out for a hot date. When at home or just running around town put the hair up in a cute protective style. This simple habit will help you grow black hair long.

More Tips to Grow Black Hair Long:

Relax your hair three or four times a year. That's right, let it stretch for as long as possible. I personally like Optimum's relaxer because it has a breakage defense packet that you can put on your hair before applying the cream to new growth.

Consider buying more shirts made of satin or a satin robe to wear at home if you want your hair to hang down.

Did I say that you must wash your hair every 4 to 5 days to grow black hair long ? Regardless, it's worth repeating a thousand times over! Do not go a week or more without washing your hair--leaving dirt and oils in your hair does not promote black hair growth.

Forget what your ma, auntie or hair stylist told you in the past --do not apply heavy oils or grease to your hair if you want to grow black hair long. PERIOD. End of story.



  1. Aline Bentley Combs On July 3, 2010 at 4:01 AM

    this is great ! thank you ^^

      CB Lady On August 5, 2010 at 2:41 PM

    you are very welcome

      Anonymous On October 20, 2010 at 1:57 PM

    your articles are good, thank you! I assume you have adsense.....

      Anonymous On June 5, 2011 at 4:30 AM

    i;m going to try this i really hope itworks, my hair used to be all the way to my butt but not anymore

      how to make your hair grow faster On November 10, 2011 at 11:24 AM

    excellent hair growth tips!

      Hair Growth On November 11, 2011 at 1:06 AM

    Great informative post. I personally like mira hair oil, it really help my hair grow longer

      Anonymous On December 19, 2011 at 9:50 AM

    Everything you said is true!

      CB Lady On January 3, 2012 at 9:14 PM

    Thank you ladies, any other useful tips please post them.

      Anonymous On April 26, 2012 at 3:22 PM

    Thank you I will Try. It thanks so much

      Anonymous On May 5, 2012 at 2:30 AM

    i love your advices !
    thanks! merci beaucoup !from paris, france.

      Anonymous On July 16, 2012 at 9:12 PM

    Will head and shoulders shampoo and conditioner work?

      Long Hair Fan On August 2, 2012 at 8:02 AM

    Really great article and the tips are right on. Only thing I could add would be to try a special hair vitamin supplement. Those can help a lot as well!

      Anonymous On November 30, 2012 at 5:03 AM

    Will this work for older women am 56 too much self dyeing hair has cause more grey Sweat. A lot n hair during the harmones chg. I wear wig because no perm will stay

      Anonymous On December 23, 2012 at 6:14 PM

    thank u i love the tips

      Marina Brown On January 30, 2013 at 6:56 AM

    Great tips there. When growing hair, I found the natural course the best. No side-effects. Indian Ayurveda offers a whole host of herbs for hair care, such as Amla, Brahmi, Bhringraj, Reetha, Shikakai, etc. Fortunately, on Amazon, I came across this US company Vadik Herbs. They offer pre-wash Ayurvedic Herbal Oils. No chemicals, no mineral oil qualify tempted me for at least one safe trial. I opted for their Brahmi-Amla hair oil. After just 3 months of use, my hair is strong, glossy, soft, and even longer. I put it thrice a week before going to bed and wash it in the morning with a herbal shampoo. Along with all your tips, I strongly recommend it.

      Marrisa On May 31, 2013 at 5:47 PM

    I really like your blog. Keep up the good work.

      Anonymous On June 11, 2013 at 6:20 PM

    My hair is thin at the ends i really hopes this work and this will be my first time trying this tip

      Sarah Boxer On July 14, 2013 at 3:31 PM

    I have thick coarse hair that looks great when it is relaxed. I have been experimenting with other products and forgot how much I love the Shielo Restoration Oil.

    I use the Shielo Oil on my hair for conditioning every few days (depending on hair dullness). My hair looks amazingly shiny and more manageable. It also helps me prevent split ends. Recently I was in a wedding and we used it as a finisher for my upsweep. The hair stylist was amazed, she commented she had never seen hair with so much sheen.

      Anonymous On July 26, 2013 at 10:00 AM

    I relaxed my hair but it don't last do anyone know why sometimes it just last 4weeks if that

      Anonymous On October 20, 2013 at 12:01 PM

    Okay so...question. I gave myself a blowout (I put heat protectant in) anyways will this stunt my hair growth?

      Anonymous On October 20, 2013 at 12:32 PM

    I gave myself a blowout (I used biosilk heat protectant) will this stunt my hair growth?

      CB Lady On October 28, 2013 at 4:28 PM

    I don't think occasional blowouts stunt your hair growth (I used to do blow outs about twice a month when I was relaxed) but TOO MUCH heat will cause the ends to break off over time. Best to limit the heat you use on your hair and yes use a heat protectant. Thanks for reading lady!

      Anonymous On April 23, 2014 at 6:15 AM

    Me too fell off by a silly hairdresser On December 22, 2015 at 2:50 PM

    What do you do if your hair is cut very short and you are trying to grow it back out

      Anonymous On June 4, 2016 at 3:34 PM

    I'm only thirteen and I'm African American and Puerto Rican. My hair used to be armpit length but do to split ends dryness and breakage it is now only a little past neck length. My hair still stays dry even after conditioning and I'm finding it difficult to keep a hair care routine, any advice?

      mzdiva diva On September 25, 2016 at 6:21 AM

    That was beautiful lesson you teaching black women about our hair I feel so much better reading this. Thank you

      Rizvi Chy On November 26, 2016 at 9:31 AM  

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